What club you might ask? Well - read on to find out!!
I have a new class in the afternoons. It's 5 kids that are "six years old" in Korean speak, that usually means that they are 5. Here, they turn a year older on Jan. 1st - so in Korean, I am 24 not 23, even though my birthday is not until May 31. Even if the kid is born on Dec. 31 - they turn one on Jan. 1, so theoretically a kid could be one year old but really only one day!
Anyways, the class hardly speaks English and there's one little girl that is only 5 (4 in real age). Last class, she spent the better part of 30 minutes with tears brimming in her eyes and her lower lip quivering - and finally broke down so I had to take her out of class. Today, she almost immediately started crying, so I took her down to the front desk. I finally got a teacher to translate, and she said that she missed her mom. When they finally brought her back to class, she started crying again. So I picked her up like a doll and carried her around for a bit. Then I put her in a chair at the front and sat with her and helped her do her work. This seemed to suitably distract her, and she even went and sat at the table with all the other kids by the end of class so she could colour!
But anyways in the midst of all this, she starts walking all funny and says something to me in Korean, which I intuitively took to mean, "I have to pee." So I follow her to the bathroom wondering to myself, "Can 4 year olds go to the bathroom by themselves? Do I have to help? To what extent do I have to help?"
So she goes, and I kind of leave the door half open and awkwardly stand there, until I hear a little "Haseyo." (Done). So I go in - thankfully she knew how to go herself, so I just had to help her pull up her pants and tuck in her shirt.
So I'm finally initated into the little kid bathroom club! I've heard other teachers that teach the little babies talk about having to do that but until this day I never had. First time for everything!